Notre Dame, brief Paris trip with Bob in 2009

From the Washington Post 4/16/2019

Bob and I had crepes at this little stand across from Notre Dame. Somehow this sadness reminds me of how we took advantage of traveling as much as we could — now, Bob gone, I am aging, Cathedral never the same.

Carpe diem

Jonsey in a past life, with cowboy

February 2019 — Mexico!

I met Todd and Ann Marie and Cully at Petit Laffite in Mexico, the place I have gone for years and then Bob and I for even more years together every winter. I will never match my New York friends.  Pat Neumann said she and her husband have been coming for 30 years! Pat and I both lost our husbands within a year of each other. They had been great friends there.

My family had never been there! It was so wonderful when they finally understood my enthusiasm.

wild Spider Monkeys get a banana buffet every day. Then they swing back into the jungle.

 

Three Cully pictures (we were roommates)

perfect

Mayan dancers

 

Morning

Chicken Nachos

 

our apartments

Todd took the family selfie (with Jesus in the background)

 

The love birds  

 

Todd and Ann Marie simultaneous massages – two masseuses, sound of waves, birds, not on tape.

Cully had massages too. She said it felt like she fixed her….

my favorite picture of Todd

Now, back to reality – shoveled a path in deep snow for the dogs on the deck.

photos by Judy, Cully and Todd

 

Half Time Show February 1, 2019

could not resist  (thank you “New Yorker”)

January 30, 2019 10:36 a.m.

OH NO…… MR. BILL 1/19/19

Jonesy got the speaker/squeaker out right away, but Mr. Bill is trying to hold it together.

The Writing on the Wall (not the Mexico wall) 12.25.2018

Time for G.O.P. to Threaten to Fire Trump

Republican leaders need to mount an intervention.

Thomas L. Friedman

By Thomas L. Friedman

Opinion Columnist

Up to now I have not favored removing President Trump from office. I felt strongly that it would be best for the country that he leave the way he came in, through the ballot box. But last week was a watershed moment for me, and I think for many Americans, including some Republicans.

It was the moment when you had to ask whether we really can survive two more years of Trump as president, whether this man and his demented behavior — which will get only worse as the Mueller investigation concludes — are going to destabilize our country, our markets, our key institutions and, by extension, the world. And therefore his removal from office now has to be on the table.

I believe that the only responsible choice for the Republican Party today is an intervention with the president that makes clear that if there is not a radical change in how he conducts himself — and I think that is unlikely — the party’s leadership will have no choice but to press for his resignation or join calls for his impeachment.

It has to start with Republicans, given both the numbers needed in the Senate and political reality. Removing this president has to be an act of national unity as much as possible — otherwise it will tear the country apart even more. I know that such an action is very difficult for today’s G.O.P., but the time is long past for it to rise to confront this crisis of American leadership.

Trump’s behavior has become so erratic, his lying so persistent, his willingness to fulfill the basic functions of the presidency — like reading briefing books, consulting government experts before making major changes and appointing a competent staff — so absent, his readiness to accommodate Russia and spurn allies so disturbing and his obsession with himself and his ego over all other considerations so consistent, two more years of him in office could pose a real threat to our nation. Vice President Mike Pence could not possibly be worse.

The damage an out-of-control Trump can do goes well beyond our borders. America is the keystone of global stability. Our world is the way it is today — a place that, despite all its problems, still enjoys more peace and prosperity than at any time in history — because America is the way it is (or at least was). And that is a nation that at its best has always stood up for the universal values of freedom and human rights, has always paid extra to stabilize the global system from which we were the biggest beneficiary and has always nurtured and protected alliances with like-minded nations.

Donald Trump has proved time and again that he knows nothing of the history or importance of this America. That was made starkly clear in Secretary of Defense Jim Mattis’s resignation letter.

Trump is in the grip of a mad notion that the entire web of global institutions and alliances built after World War II — which, with all their imperfections, have provided the connective tissues that have created this unprecedented era of peace and prosperity — threatens American sovereignty and prosperity and that we are better off without them.

So Trump gloats at the troubles facing the European Union, urges Britain to exit and leaks that he’d consider quitting NATO. These are institutions that all need to be improved, but not scrapped. If America becomes a predator on all the treaties, multilateral institutions and alliances holding the world together; if America goes from being the world’s anchor of stability to an engine of instability; if America goes from a democracy built on the twin pillars of truth and trust to a country where it is acceptable for the president to attack truth and trust on a daily basis, watch out: Your kids won’t just grow up in a different America. They will grow up in a different world.

The last time America disengaged from the world remotely in this manner was in the 1930s, and you remember what followed: World War II.

You have no idea how quickly institutions like NATO and the E.U. and the World Trade Organization and just basic global norms — like thou shalt not kill and dismember a journalist in your own consulate — can unravel when America goes AWOL or haywire under a shameless isolated president.

But this is not just about the world, it’s about the minimum decorum and stability we expect from our president. If the C.E.O. of any public company in America behaved like Trump has over the past two years — constantly lying, tossing out aides like they were Kleenex, tweeting endlessly like a teenager, ignoring the advice of experts — he or she would have been fired by the board of directors long ago. Should we expect less for our president?

That’s what the financial markets are now asking. For the first two years of the Trump presidency the markets treated his dishonesty and craziness as background noise to all the soaring corporate profits and stocks. But that is no longer the case. Trump has markets worried.

The instability Trump is generating — including his attacks on the chairman of the Federal Reserve — is causing investors to wonder where the economic and geopolitical management will come from as the economy slows down. What if we’re plunged into an economic crisis and we have a president whose first instinct is always to blame others and who’s already purged from his side the most sober adults willing to tell him that his vaunted “gut instincts” have no grounding in economics or in law or in common sense. Mattis was the last one.

We are now left with the B team — all the people who were ready to take the jobs that Trump’s first team either resigned from — because they could not countenance his lying, chaos and ignorance — or were fired from for the same reasons.

I seriously doubt that any of these B-players would have been hired by any other administration. Not only do they not inspire confidence in a crisis, but they are all walking around knowing that Trump would stab every one of them in the back with his Twitter knife, at any moment, if it served him. This makes them even less effective.

Ah, we are told, but Trump is a different kind of president. He’s a disrupter. Well, I respect those who voted for Trump because they thought the system needed “a disrupter. It did in some areas. I agree with Trump on the need to disrupt the status quo in U.S.-China trade relations, to rethink our presence in places like Syria and Afghanistan and to eliminate some choking regulations on business.

But too often Trump has given us disruption without any plan for what comes next. He has worked to destroy Obamacare with no plan for the morning after. He announced a pullout from Syria and Afghanistan without even consulting the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, or the State Department’s top expert, let alone our allies.

People wanted disruption, but too often Trump has given us destruction, distraction, debasement and sheer ignorance.

And while, yes, we need disruption in some areas, we also desperately need innovation in others. How do we manage these giant social networks? How do we integrate artificial intelligence into every aspect of our society, as China is doing? How do we make lifelong learning available to every American? At a time when we need to be building bridges to the 21st century, all Trump can talk about is building a wall with Mexico — a political stunt to energize his base rather than the comprehensive immigration reform that we really need.

Indeed, Trump’s biggest disruption has been to undermine the norms and values we associate with a U.S. president and U.S. leadership. And now that Trump has freed himself of all restraints from within his White House staff, his cabinet and his party — so that “Trump can be Trump,” we are told — he is freer than ever to remake America in his image.

And what is that image? According to The Washington Post’s latest tally, Trump has made 7,546 false or misleading claims through Dec. 20, the 700th day of his term in office. And all that was supposedly before “we let Trump be Trump.”

If America starts to behave as a selfish, shameless, lying grifter like Trump, you simply cannot imagine how unstable — how disruptive — world markets and geopolitics may become.

We cannot afford to find out.

December 8, 2018

Could not resist.

October 6, 2018

It is now the fall of 2018, October is a favorite. Big bright red apples in abundance on the dwarf apple tree in the back yard, maples in full color out the front window, visits from family and friends after surgery for a new knee. October is also the anniversary of my marriage to Bob – the 14th. We would have been married for 12 years. It doesn’t feel like enough, but, on the other hand, was a precious gift.

I was having lunch with my friend Rosemary at IHOP where Bob and I loved to go after doc appointments or other errands. In the sky out the window a flock of geese in formation flew by and then circled back around again. Something about that lifted my heart. I was healing well with my new knee and could see I would be able to do many things I could not for — actually years. I remembered a story and column I wrote when I worked for the Dells Events. I told Rosemary about it and promised to send her a copy.  Here it is for you.

Van Gogh and the cranes

FAMILY TIMES
____________
Judy Gibson
Dells Events
October 27, 2001

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Two occasions of truth and beauty brought tears to my eyes in the space of two days last week.

The first was the sight of the valiant, inexperienced whooping cranes, nearly the last of their kind, following a little noisy plane over the river, learning how to migrate between Wisconsin and Florida.

I waited along with a small group of people on the Wisconsin River for a good look at the cranes that lift off first thing in the morning. I thought of all the effort and the money being spent to try to save these stunning birds from extinction. But that wasn’t what made me cry. I cried when I saw them in the sky, coming out of the mist, following as they are born to do in that V formation

Even geese, plentiful as they are, flying in that formation high in the sky makes me catch my breath. I’m not sure what it is although it may be the perfect integrity of the natural world combined with the beauty and grace of the birds flying in a flock, their own extended family, doing together what they could not do alone.

This time that feeling was multiplied by a hundred as these historic birds soared above on a mission they were unaware of.

How fragile is life.

starry_night

The second occasion was in stark contrast to standing out at dawn on the river. My son lives in Chicago and this gives me an excuse to visit the wonderful art museum there. The next day after the cranes, I stood in front of Vincent Van Gogh’s painting, “The Starry Night.” Of course I am very familiar with this painting of swirly pattern around the moon and dots of stars in the sky over the south of France.

I have loved this painting, but nothing compares to standing a few feet away feeling an impact of the beauty and almost painful tenderness. Van Gogh painted this toward the end of his life, he killed himself not long after, and he painted it while he was in an asylum. The exhibition was so well done, illustrating the friendship and competitive artistic relationship between Van Gogh and Paul Gauguin.

Van Gogh was so excited about Gauguin’s coming to stay with him that he painted something just to hang in the room he furnished to please him. Van Gogh was much less sure of himself and it was agony to keep his own integrity in the presence of Gauguin. It was also when his own mental health was crumbling. Then, out of that pain and near the end of his time on earth, he painted this pulsing masterpiece.

I found myself tearing up there, ignoring the crowd of other people moving around me. My son said you could feel the energy coming out of the painting.

It felt just like when I saw the cranes.

Robert Pike 1933 – 2018

It is somehow perfect that the last picture I took of Bob was on his tractor blowing snow. A few weeks later he was gone. I am not sure what I want to write about at this point – less than a month since he died. He died suddenly  in the early hours of April 4.  Cause of death was aortic dissection –  aneurysm in his aortic artery. Here are a couple of my favorite pictures of Bob. and the obit that was published.

We traveled to Mexico every year with a couple of exceptions. This one was taken early on. The courting phase, as he would say.

 

Bob and George – he loved our dogs, faithful friends

Robert Hagan Pike

  • Apr 6, 2018 — from the Stillwater Gazette 

(this was taken at a little cottage on the North Shore of Lake Superior)

 

 

Robert Pike, age 84 of Lake Elmo, MN, passed away suddenly on Wednesday, April 4, 2018 due to a heart problem. Bob was born in Jersey City, NJ on Sept. 12, 1933. He grew up in Teaneck, NJ and graduated from the Englewood School for Boys in Bergen, NJ. He said he remembers hanging off the airport fence when he was four years old and he learned to fly at Little Ferry Seaplane Base in New Jersey on the Hackensack River at age 16 in 1949.

Bob graduated from Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University in Florida in aviation maintenance, and he bought and sold about 14 or 15 small airplanes in his lifetime. He started his airline career as co-pilot for troop transports and then at Capital Airlines, Washington, D.C., where he was a flight engineer, co-pilot and captain. Capital merged with United Airlines and he retired from United in 1993.

In his final years, he was Captain of 747s from O’Hare to Narita, Japan; he was a commercial pilot for 38 years. In 1985, he was in charge of the Chicago based office during the United Pilots Union strike. He held a pilot license, instructor’s license, A&P mechanics, and CFI.

In his retirement, he moved to Adams County in Wisconsin where he lived adjacent to the airport, and then moved to the Twin Cities after his marriage to Judy Gibson, where they both worked on the Lake Elmo municipal library project.

He will be missed by his family and his many friends. Robert was preceded in death by his parents Robert Hagan Pike, Sr. and Marguerite Ann Yeutter Pike, and his wife Dorothy Orofino Pike. He is survived by his wife, Judy Gibson; his brother Charles (Ursula) Pike; his children Robert Hagan (Elaine) Pike, Cindi (Joel) Freeman, Ron Pike (Ann Brooke), William Todd (Jill) Pike; grandchildren, Ryan (Jamie) Pike, Sara Pike, Samantha Freeman, Annie Freeman, Addie Brooke Pike, Taylor Pike and Chandler Pike; and great-grandchildren, Owen, Lucas and Bryn Pike. There will be a family gathering to celebrate his life at his home in Lake Elmo.